The Power of Wow is Here

Hello Ladies,

I'm so thrilled to share the exciting news with you that The Power of Wow: A Guide to Unleashing The Confident, Sexy You is now available. This book has been a labor of love and includes the coaching curriculum I designed when I began my sensuality coaching nearly five years ago. With the help of many students along the way, I have streamlined and refined it into what actress, Debi Morgan (Angie from All My Children) raves: "Finally! A book that teaches women how to be genuinely sexy and for all of the right reasons!"

New York Times bestselling author Zane says: "Lori Bryant-Woolridge puts the power of sex into every woman's hands."

And Dr. Linda Clever, author of The Fatigue Prescription, declares, "The Power of Wow helps you examine your preferences and habits, and offers refreshing, practical alternatives. It is self-help with a flair. Read it and do it!"


I'm proud to say that these are just a few of the raves reviews that have been coming in for The Power of Wow. But if you tend not to believe the hype, believe the women who have used this program to improve, enrich and change their lives.

"This is the best thing that's happen to me in a decade!" says Stiletto U alumni Dina. "I just want you to know that this book will make you a woman!"

And Gigi wants you to know that, "This program is so much richer than its fun exterior would indicate. It's really centered around issues of authenticity and self-worth, and the benefits are not just for the personal/intimate relationships, but for all relationships. Through Stiletto U, I woke up to appreciating and being more alive in the world, and that's a gift worth its weight in gold."

This is a book for women of all ages, races, and social and sexual circumstances. If your feminine confidence could use a real boost, and you'd like to unearth the sexy, confident you, please consider purchasing The Power of Wow. Also, consider registering w Stilettou.com. You'll have the chance to join a study group, which will give you access to live chat sessions, coaching discounts and other goodies.

I do sincerely hope you will consider purchasing your copy of The Power of Wow: A Guide to Unleashing the Confident, Sexy You. And please, by all means, tell your friends!

Celebrate your Senses Today

June 24, 2009 has been declared "Celebration of the Senses" day. Okay, I'm not sure by whom, but it works for me, especially if it gives you an 'official' reason to make today a particularly sensuous experience.

Celebrate Your Senses day can be shared with the one you love or the one you're with, even if that 'one' is the one and only you. In a perfect world, you would celebrate it both ways, together and alone.

It doesn't have to be a big, fancy affair. Just so long as you treat yourself to a five sense stimulating experience. It could be as simple as enjoying an ice cream cone together, giving witness to the sweet, sugary smell, the creamy, delicious taste and smooth texture of the ice cream dissolving in your mouth, while enjoying the sights and sounds of the world going on around you. And sharing your ice cream adds an entirely different layer of sensuality to the experience!

You could prepare a meal that sensuous in nature from the menu right down to the table decor and wine selection. Mindful eating--taking the time to enjoy and experience each bite--makes the usual gulp and run pale in comparison. Or maybe you'd prefer a long, luxurious, candlelight soak in the tub followed by a sensual rubdown of your favorite oil or lotion.

It could be all day affair like a day at the beach where you can smell and taste the salt air, hear and see the crashing waves of the ocean, and feel the sand between your toes. Or sitting inside, listening to the rain fall, wrapped up in your silkiest jammies, while enjoying some decadently expensive chocolates, What a way to celebrate your senses!

The point is, it doesn't matter what you do as long as you you do it. It doesn't even matter if it doesn't happen tonight. The beauty of celebrating life through your senses is that it can happen anywhere at any time! And it should!

November Poll Results...Compliments

Here are the poll results for November. The question was about your ability to give and receive compliments.

54% said compliments were easy to receive and believe.

30% said compliments were difficult to receive and believe.

33% said compliments were easy to give.

3% said compliments were difficult to give.

So let me compliment the more than half of you who are living an all around complimentary life. Excellent work ladies! And also kudos to you who were happy to notice something nice about someone and comment on it.

I asked this because in a recent Unleash the Sensual You workshop I gave, I asked each woman in the workshop to stand in the middle of the circle while the others in the group gave her a compliment. You would have thought I said stand there so we could throw rocks at your head! Instead of hearing and internalizing the amazing things that stood out about them to strangers, most shut down and were visibly uncomfortable. They stood there squirming and fidgeting and screwing up their faces, wanting it to be over.

I had to ask, "So when a man comes over and says you have a great smile and you do that with your face, you are surprised that he doesn't follow through?"

If you take the time to listen, you will find that people--friends and strangers--are gifting you all the time, revealing what is unique and special about you. If you allow yourself to believe, you will find that these compliments become the cornerstone of your self-confidence.

Listen. Learn. And rejoice in your own wonderfulness!

What do you think?